How to get diagnose and get rid of fake friends?
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I start by letting all readers know I am doing ok and this is not intended to be used on real friends, please... except for those who like pranks maybe.
So, some of us have those people around: friends of what you have, what you can give, what they can get.
Let's see what we can do to uncover them and get rid of them. Because, they can cost a lot of trouble and negative energy and will definitely not do anything good for you.
I am talking about that friend that run to your new apartment just to see what you have... and get jealous, upset or compare to anybody who has better.
I am talking about that friend who gets really upset when everything is alright in your home.
I am talking about that friend that compliments you on your successes to then grinned her teeth when turning around.
I am talking about that friend who always takes it out on you when things are tough on him or her and apologizes after a little while, to do it again later.
I am talking about that friend that really think that he/she does charity by being your friends, or does you a favor.
I am talking about that friend that will always be very negative about anybody else around you and doesn't even see that he/she disrespects you on a regular basis.
Let's rest the case of defining the fake friend to you and your own values and needs. And I have to add, that friend may not realize that they are being such a bad friend to you.
THE CURE
Call to say:
I am getting married and am so happy
I won the lottery and live for foreign country
I just met the friend of my dreams
My husband or wife treats me so nice it is another honeymoon
The shortest one that requires no lie or exaggeration is:
I feel so great today.
Ok, I may seem a little harsh here, I am not, I assure you. I mean we all deserve to love ourselves, treat ourselves right and surround ourselves with spirits that uplift us.
I realize I have been pulling such a weigh for a while out of dedication, commitment and pure friendly affection. I am at peace, I have sincere love for all and allow myself to stop, say no to the wrong. I want to keep feeding my positive energy, my Light, my Love.
Life can be wonderful, let's move on.
Love and peace to all
- Coffee and Cigarettes 3 - Vidéo Dailymotion
coffee and cigarettes by Jim Jarmusch, two friends meet at the cafe and one seems to reveal himself in the face of the peaceful life of his friend!
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thank you i was upset first the laugh to the lead, frankly if I told the story that inspired me you would do the same, be upset and then laugh at how absurd this situation was.
lol niaaa- you are such a hoooooot.
so go on that honeymoooon.I am not only jealous of you, I am jealous of your husband too.!!!!!1
NiaLee, your hub made me laugh because I was/still a little bit am upset at some people, and I imagined saying those things to them. I actually think I will! :)
Neelesh my friend always happy to read you and your comment just make me and my husband laugh a lot... your hubs way more! Vekoslav, welcome to my world, happy to read you and know that I have been able to bring a smile or more to your face and mind.
I remember one friend who would call me and wouldn't be satisfied if I didn't say I had a problem...here I am going to add a video of two friends meeting in a cafe and the situation was exactly the same... the friend gets very upset!
Now I feel way better, I am in a place of calm and know that we choose our friends, we don't have to endure them if they are not right or good!
Love and peace to all and I wish you all to meet and stay around people that love you, treat you right, that you love and treat right, that you all enjoy great time and endure difficulties together. Be with who brings out and enjoy the best of you and the best for you.
Love and peace to us whole.
Namaste
NiaLee
this was really funny. Also true, because we all know those women, and sometimes are those women. What we need to realize is that this does not make us true friends, and we should be happy for everyone because each is blessed in their own way. Thanks for writing this, it was poignant and hilarious!
lol.. i cant help it but had a good laugh.. u put it in such a fun light beat way. nice!
Vekoslav 4 months ago
You made me laugh out loud!!! :D